CKN v DMO (Civil Appeal 21B of 2022) [2023] KEHC 26379 (KLR) (8 December 2023) (Judgment)
Neutral citation:
[2023] KEHC 26379 (KLR)
Republic of Kenya
Civil Appeal 21B of 2022
DKN Magare, J
December 8, 2023
Between
CKN
Appellant
and
DMO
Respondent
The concept of alimony is an anathema to the equality of men and women
The main issue for determination was whether the concept of alimony was still part of Kenyan law considering the right to equality provided under article 45 of the Constitution that provided that parties to a marriage were entitled to equal rights at the time of the marriage, during the marriage and at the dissolution of the marriage. The High Court held that alimony was no longer a reality in Kenya with the introduction of the equality clause provided under article 45 of the Constitution that provided that parties to a marriage were entitled to equal rights at the time of the marriage, during the marriage and at the dissolution of the marriage.
Jurisdiction – jurisdiction of a divorce court vis-à-vis the jurisdiction of the Children Court – jurisdiction to determine the rights of a child of a divorcing couple - whether a divorce court had the matter to deal with matters pertaining to the children of the divorcing couple – Children Act (Cap. 141), section 59.Family Law – marriages – divorce – alimony – legality of alimony - whether the concept of alimony was still part of Kenyan law considering the right to equality that provided that parties to a marriage were entitled to equal rights at the time of the marriage, during the marriage and at the dissolution of the marriage – Constituent of Kenya, article 45.Family Law – marriages – customary marriages - divorce – return of dowry after divorce - whether in a divorce petition the court could order the wife to return dowry to the husband where the same was paid by the husband to the wife’s parents.Civil Practice and Procedure – submissions – status of submissions - failure to file submissions despite numerous reminders of the court – effect - whether a court could issue a judgment on a matter in which a party had failed to file submissions despite numerous reminders by the court - whether the lack of filed submissions by one party in a matter before court could change the trajectory of the matter.
Brief facts
The appeal arose from a divorce petition. The appeal was based on ground that the trial court erred in not awarding custody of the child to the appellant (the mother of the child), and in ordering the appellant to return dowry to the respondent. The appellant contended that dowry was paid by the respondent to her parents and as such, such a claim should be made by the respondent against her parents. The appellant also sought for payment of alimony and maintenance by the respondent.
Issues
- Whether a divorce court had the matter to deal with matters pertaining to the children of the divorcing couple.
- Whether the concept of alimony was still part of Kenyan law considering the right to equality provided under article 45 of the Constitution that provided that parties to a marriage were entitled to equal rights at the time of the marriage, during the marriage and at the dissolution of the marriage.
- Whether in a divorce petition the court could order the wife to return dowry to the husband where the same was paid by the husband to the wife’s parents.
- Whether a court could issue a judgment on a matter in which a party had failed to file submissions despite numerous reminders by the court.
- Whether the lack of filed submissions by one party in a matter before court could change the trajectory of the matter
Held
- The appellant had neglected, failed or otherwise refused to file submissions in spite of being reminded 5 times to do so. Submissions were not evidence. Consequently, the lack of the same did not change the trajectory of the matter. It only excluded matters parties could have conceded in the submissions.
- Being a first appeal, the court was under a duty to re-evaluate and assess the evidence and make its own conclusions. A trial court, unlike the appellate court, had the advantage of observing the demeanour of the witnesses and hearing their evidence first hand.
- The child had a right which was inalienable to both the father and mother. If there were any issues, then the same should be dealt by other means. The court dealing with divorce dealt with mundane issues but children were not parties. The proper court to deal with the nitty-gritties of the children was the Children Court pursuant to section 90 of the Children Act.
- The order of access was proper in law. There was no departure from the Children’s Act. The prayer for full custody of the minor was dismissed. No basis was made to show that the court wrongly exercised discretion.
- The court could not substitute the discretion of the trial court with that of the appellate court unless there was a basis. The parties making of babies was a joint effort and that applied to love and affection. There was no parent with a superior right over another. A husband could be a mongrel to the wife or ex-wife but remained a father to the child. The fact that he was a bad husband or someone was a bad wife, did not make them bad parents.
- Parties were bound by their pleadings. There was no contest for return of dowry. Therefore, without pleadings the court’s hands were tied.
- The appellant had not laid a basis for not retuning dowry. Other than tradition, the return of dowry was crucial where there are two underlying marriage traditions, Kisii customary law and a Christian marriage. The court rightfully ordered return of the two instruments for each of the marriages. The marriage certificate of the Christian marriage was returned to signal the cancellation of the Christian marriage.
- The traditional marriage was cancelled by return of dowry. Whether the same was returned by her or her father, was irrelevant. She had 2 years to file an indemnity suit against her father for return of dowry. It was unnecessary to join the appellant’s parents in order to get refund of dowry.
- Alimony was no longer a reality in Kenya with the introduction of the equality clause provided under article 45 of the Constitution that provided that parties to a marriage were entitled to equal rights at the time of the marriage, during the marriage and at the dissolution of the marriage.
- The reality of the concept of alimony was that it was based on the concept that the men and women were not equal. A man and woman join in holy matrimony and became one. That led to the men paying alimony as they slowly let go of their ex-wives. Alimony ceased on re-marriage, not for any reason but that the woman had a new man to maintain her. That was why Kenya had the Married Women Property Act, 1882 (repealed). It was not surprising that there was no Married Men Properties Act.
- The concept of alimony was anathema to equality of men and women. It portrayed women wrongfully as weak. Parties must walk out with only scars of the marriage. The appellant was not entitled alimony. Not because she did not prove, but because the concept of alimony was no longer part of the law. With constitutional changes, the existence of alimony was repugnant to good order and equality of people in marriage before, during and after the marriage. None of the parties had a burden of maintaining the other.
Appeal dismissed with no order as to costs.
Citations
CasesKenya
- Chatte, Raghbir Singh v National Bank of Kenya Limited Civil Appeal 50 of 1996; [1996] eKLR - (Explained)
- Fidelity & Commercial Bank Ltd v Kenya Grange Vehicle Industries Ltd Civil Appeal 61 of 2013; [2017] eKLR - (Explained)
- Migore, Daniel Otieno v South Nyanza Sugar Co Ltd Civil Appeal 52 of 2017; [2018] KEHC 5465 (KLR) - (Explained)
- MN v JMK Civil Appeal 163 of 2015; [2019] KEHC 8815 (KLR) - (Explained)
- Odinga & another v Independent Electoral and Boundaries Commission & 2 others Election Petition 1 of 2017; [2017] KESC 31 (KLR) - (Explained)
- RKM v GMN Divorce Cause 10 of 2014; [2015] KEHC 3860 (KLR) - (Explained)
- Walutsachi, Sylvanus Manuel v St Mary’s Hospital Mumias Civil Appeal 42 of 2019; [2021] KEHC 8335 (KLR) - (Explained)
- Mbogo and another v Shah [1968] EA 93 - (Explained)
- Peters v Sunday Post Limited [1958] EA 424 - (Explained)
- Selle and another v Associated Motor Board Company and others [1968] EA 123 - (Explained)
- Children Act (cap 141) section 90 - (Interpreted)
- Constitution of Kenya, 2010 articles 21(3); 45; 53 - (Interpreted)
- Matrimonial Causes Act (Repealed) (cap 152)sections 25, 26 - (Interpreted)
Judgment
1.This is an appeal from the judgment and decree of Hon CA Ogweno (RM) delivered on March 1, 2022 in Kisii Chief Magistrate’s Divorce Cause No 58 of 2021.
2.This matter came before me for hearing of the appeal during the service week. I note from record that the appellant has neglected, failed or otherwise refused to file submissions in spite of being reminded 5 times to do so.
3.On Wednesday, 6/12/2023, I directed that the matter shall proceed for hearing at 1100 hours. However, though the appellant’s advocates were called but did not log in only the respondent’s advocate attended court. I opted to use the record and to render my Judgment. I am comforted by the decision of the Court of Appeal in the case of , where the Court of Appeal stated as doth: -
4.Submissions are not evidence. Consequently, the lack of the same does not change the trajectory of the matter. It only excludes mattes parties could have conceded in the submissions.
5.This being a first appeal, this court is under a duty to re-evaluate and assess the evidence and make its own conclusions. It must, however, keep at the back of its mind that a trial court, unlike the appellate court, had the advantage of observing the demeanour of the witnesses and hearing their evidence first hand.
6.The duty of the first appellate court was settled long ago by Clement De Lestang, VP, Duffus and Law JJA, in the locus classicus case of Selle and another v Associated Motor Board Company and others [1968] EA 123, where the law looks in their usual gusto, held by as follows;-
7.The court is to bear in in mind that it had neither seen nor heard the witnesses. It is the trial court that has observed the demeanor and truthfulness of those witnesses. However, documents still speak for themselves. The observation of documents is the same as the lower court as parties cannot read into those documents matters extrinsic to them.
8.In the case of Peters v Sunday Post Limited [1958] EA 424, court therein rendered itself as follows:-
9.In Fidelity & Commercial Bank Ltd v Kenya Grange Vehicle Industries Ltd [2017] eKLR , the Court of Appeal, Ouko, Kiage and Murgor JJA held as doth;-
10.The trial court and this court will construct documents in a similar manner as there are no witnesses required to know the content of a document.
11.Therefore, where the findings of the trial court are consistent with the evidence generally, this court should not interfere with the same.
12.The appeal is based on 5 grounds, that is: -a.The learned trial magistrate erred both in law and fact by failing to evaluate the evidence presented by the appellant.b.The learned trial magistrate erredboth in law and fact in arriving at a wrong decision.c.The learned trial magistrate erred both in law and fact by failing to make a finding that the appellant had proved her case on a balance of probability and was entitled to the orders of custody of the child.
13.The appellant's appeal is based on two grounds. Firstly, the trial magistrate ordered the appellant to return the dowry to the respondent, even though the appellant did not receive it. Secondly, the trial magistrate did not recognize that the dowry was paid to the appellant's parents. The appellant seeks the following remedies: -a.Grant of custody of the appellant exclusively.b.Payment of Kshs 150,000/= as dowry be vacated.c.Payment of almonry and maintenance of the child at Kshs 25,000/= per month.
Pleadings
14.The parties are said to have contracted a marriage on 3/12/2017. This was a Christian marriage. The appellant is said to have left the matrimonial home in 2019 to her parent’s home. There s no appeal related to the divorce itself, but the auxiliary reliefs.
15.The appellantfiled across petition stating that the appellant was cruel and remarried and is staying at Mulolongo Machakos County. She prayed that she be given custody of the minor. She also prayed for the divorce.
16.From the pleadings the marriage was already dead. It was not for resuscitation. The court rightly terminated it. The pleadings are not the best as to the auxiliary relief.
17.The parties testified on 31/1/2022. The appellant last saw the minor in July 2021. The marriage was properly dissolved. There is no issue on the same.
Analysis
18.The questions for the court are two:-a.Whether the respondent should have been granted legal access to the minor.b.Whether the petitioner should have been ordered to return dowry.
19.On the children, article 53 of the Constitution states as doth:-
20.The child has a right which is inalienable to both the father and mother. If there are any issues, then the same should be dealt by other means. The court dealing with divorce deals with mundane issues but children are not parties.The proper court to deal with the nit-gritties of the children is the children’s court pursuant to section 90 of the children’s act. The long title of the Children’s Act provides as doth: -
21.For now, the order of access is proper in law. I do not see any departure from the Children’s Act. I therefore dismiss the prayer for full custody of the minor. No basis was made to show that the court wrongly exercised discretion. In the case of Mbogo & another v Shah [1968] EA 93 where the Court stated:
22.I cannot substitute the discretion of the court with mine unless there is basis parties must understand that there are making of babies is a joint effort and this applies to love and affection. There is no parent with a superior right over another. A husband can be a mongrel to the wife or ex-wife but remains a father to the child. The fact that he is a bad husband or someone is a bad wife, does not make them bad parents. In the case of Sylvanus Manuel Walutsachi v St Mary’s Hospital Mumias , the Court of Appeal stated as doth: -
23.On the issue of return of dowry, this matter turns on pleadings. The cross petition reference did not touch on dowry. In a proper defence, the parties must specifically deny the money. If someone else was paid other than her, then she needs to plead so. In the case of the case of Raghbir Singh Chatte v National Bank of Kenya Limited [1996] eKLR, where the Court of Appeal stated as doth: -
24.Parties are bound by their pleadings. In the case of Daniel Otieno Migore v South Nyanza Sugar Co Ltd [2018] eKLR, Justice AC Mrima stated as doth: -
25.The Supreme Court of Kenya in its ruling on inter alia scrutiny in the case of Raila Amolo Odinga & another v IEBC & 2 others (2017) eKLR found and held as follows in respect to the essence of pleadings in an election petition: -
26.There was no contest on dowry. Therefore, without pleadings the court’s hands were tied. Parties are bound by their pleadings.In the circumstances, I find absolutely no merit in the appeal. However, I shall not awardcosts given the relationship between parties.
27.As I part it is my that that parties should also find a way of amicably moving on when things are truly over.The amount and vigour of energy used to fight each other can build a train across Hind Mahāsāgar from the breath of the federal republic of Somalia to Palestine all the way to Himalayas. The appeal and the subsequent emotional drain over spilt water is commensurate with gains to the parties. I is my sincere hope that the parties who still appear young can refresh and go back to the market without the baggage of the failed marriage. I noted the distain with which the Appellant was relating to the appellant was describing how the respondent is happily married and stating in Mulolongo in Machakos county.
28.In the case of RKM v GMN [2015] eKLR, Justice Nagilah stated as doth: -
29.The appellant has not laid basis for not retuning dowry. Other than tradition the return of dowry is crucial in this case where there are two underlying marriage traditions, that is Kisii Customary Law and a Christian marriage. The court rights ordered return of the two instruments for each of the marriages. The marriage certificate of the Christian marriage is returned to signal the cancellation of the Christian marriage.
30.The traditional marriage is cancelled by return of dowry. Whether the same is returned by her or her father, it is irrelevant. She had 2 years to file an indemnity suit against her father for return of dowry. It is unnecessary to join the appellant’s parents to be able to get refund of dowry.
31.On the other alimony is nolonger a reality in Kenya.With the introduction of the equality clause in the Constitution under article 45 of the Constitution, provides as follows: -
32.The reality of the concept of alimony is that it was based on the concept that the men and women were not equal. A man and woman join in holy matrimony and become one and that is the man. This led to the men paying alimony as they slowly let go of their ex-wives. Alimony ceased on re-marriage, not for any reason but that the woman has a new man to maintain her. That is why we had the married Woman Property Act, 1882. It is not surprising that we had no married Men Properties Act.
33.The concept of alimony is anathema to equality of men and women. It portrays women wrongfully as weak. parties must walk out with only scars of the marriage. In the case of MN v JMK [2019] eKLR, Justice GV Odunga stated as doth: -
34.I do agree that is not entitled alimony. Not because she did not prove, but because the concept of alimony is no longer part of our law. With constitutional changes, the existence of alimony is repugnant to good order and equality of people in marriage before, during and after the marriage. None of the parties has a burden of maintaining the other.
35.At the end of the matter I make the following orders: -a.I dismiss the appeal herein with no order as to cost.b.The file is closed.
DELIVERED, DATED AND SIGNED AT KISII ON THIS 8TH DAY OF DECEMBER 2023. JUDGEMENT DELIVERED THROUGH MICROSOFT TEAMS ONLINE PLATFORM.KIZITO MAGAREJUDGEIn the presence of:No appearance for the AppellantMs. Nyandoro Advocate for the RespondentCourt Assistant - Roselyn